Bondage guide for novices

Posted by ErossPlayLa 05/01/2018 0 Comments Sex Tips & Advice,Spicing up Your sex life,

Bondage guide for novices

 

So you are tired of the humdrum, boredom you have lately referred to as the equivalent of your lovemaking and are anxious and ready to spice up your sex life. Yet you may be unsure exactly how to go about it.

 

You’ve heard the term “bondage," but it brings to mind dungeons, whips and chains and, well, torture. If that has been your viewpoint of the real meaning of bondage in a fun, sexual way, then you've got it all wrong.

 

Here are a few pointers which will assist you in exploring more about bondage and who knows? And maybe you’ll give it a try as this is most important ever to a number of people who are well known.

 

First things first, because of the very nature of bondage, keep in mind that the biggest factor of a successful bondage session is about trust. It is not recommended you meet someone, hop into bed and toss in the idea of tying them to a bedpost. It may not only scare them off, but it also robs you of the entire experience.

 

If you and your partner have never discussed the idea of bondage, or you may secretly desire giving it a try, but are unsure about how to approach him or her, ask a few simple but direct questions. If you have had an ongoing, long-term sexual relationship with someone, chances are pretty good that they, too, have thought about bondage and perhaps didn’t know how to approach you with the subject, so by taking the first step and bringing up your interest in bondage, shows initiative which will enhance your experience.

 

The key element to bondage is giving up control. You both can take turns at who will be the submissive and who will be the dominant person during your sessions. Being blindfolded enhances all your other senses, so every time he touches you, especially if you can't see it coming, will trigger an ultra-sensitive and immediate response. Start out simple, experiment with what you both enjoy and slowly introduce even more stimulating elements to your play. A blindfold can be a simple scarf or one you can purchase at any novelty store. It’s a great start !

 

Share your deepest, most intense fantasies with your partner and encourage him or her to do the same.

 

Between the two of you, you can create the ultimate bondage fantasy be it role-playing, total submissive bondage or a variation of many scenarios. Don't be afraid to try new things, but make sure you both agree on whatever you choose to do because trust is essential. Your experience with bondage is meant to be a pleasant one, so don’t do anything that makes either one of you uncomfortable. Developing a good rapport is vital.

 

Once you have both agreed to a bondage session, you can introduce more props into your routine. Bondage can bring you and your partner closer, because as it is the ultimate test of your love and trust which can be heightened to new and higher levels of intimacy.

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